I have access to statistics on how many people visit my blog and the keywords they use to find it, and I'm absolutely astounded at the number of people who come here because they are looking for information about French weddings - and more specifically, what they should wear. So, let me respond to some of the questions and queries that are coming my way:
Wearing black: Yes, it is okay. You can wear black to a French wedding! I repeat, you can wear black. Black is okay.
Short vs. long dresses - what says the AP?: Unless you're working the maxi dress look, short is fine. French women of all ages wear dresses that fall to just above the knee.
Can you wear flip flops to a French wedding? No.
Really? But I like flip flops. No.
Oh. But I want to be comfortable. Flip flops are comfy. I'm not going to engage any further. Get some proper shoes, woman.
But what if the flip flops have rhinestones? I've called the fashion police. They're coming to escort you away from the blog.
Do I need to bring/send a gift if I am only attending the vin d'honneur? I would say it depends on your relationship to the couple. If you just live in the village, probably not. If you're a work colleague or distant friend, a small gift from the registry would be a nice touch, say under 30 euro. A nice bottle of wine or champagne, sent to their house, would also be appreciated.
How do I address the mayor? Monsieur le Maire or Madame la Maire. Or just Monsieur (Name) or Madame (Name).
How do you pronounce verrine? Veh-reen, with stronger emphasis on the second syllable.
Should I bring my gift or send it? No set policy, as in the US or UK, but it's just more convenient for the couple and their family if you send it. If you bring it to the wedding no one will mind.
There are about thirty people listed on the invitation and no reply card. How do I RSVP? It's not always clear. French invitations often have grandparents and parents listed - this is a traditional convention. I would suggest that you send a nice card to either the bride's address or her parent's address. 'Monsieur MCM Parisian et Madame Accidental Parisian seront presents au mariage de X et Y, avec plaisir' would do the trick, I think.
I still think it's unfair that you say I can't wear flip flops. Security?
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